Team Jess

In March, one of our dear friends was diagnosed with an aggressive form of blood cancer. As a mom to two little girls, she was determined to win the fight-- and to ignore the fright. Her motto became, "Focus on the Fight, not the Fright." And true to her brave and courageous spirit, that's exactly what she did and continues to do. In July, she entered OHSU for the grueling process of inductive chemo and a bone marrow transplant. 

That same week, the Be the Match organization held its annual 5k run/walk downtown. As anyone on the sidelines of cancer understands, Jess' group of friends wanted to do "something" to help ease the burden. There's a sense of helplessness to watch a friend fight a battle without being able to step in and take over when her own body gets exhausted. And so, we did what we could to support Jess-- including creating "Team Jess" for the Be the Match event. 

While we were huffing and puffing through the streets of Portland during the race, we had a view of the hospital up on the hill where Jess was enduring unbelievable doses of strong chemo. Thinking of her struggle, I (and surely many others running alongside me) silently sent prayers up to her room as we weaved through the streets of Portland. It was a powerful and wonderful day. 

Two days later, Jess received her bone marrow transplant, using her brother's stem cells, and is doing remarkably well. For this, I am grateful beyond measure. 

Ironman Idaho

Our bi-annual Buck vacation this year was in Coeur D'Alene, Idaho.

The first task of the trip was to be the Support Crew for Ryan and his friend Pete who competed in Ironman Idaho. What an athletic accomplishment! It was even a feat to SPECTATE, some might argue (particularly Liesl who fell asleep mid-French fry when we stopped to grab a bite to eat)!

The energy and spirit of the race were inspiring. Ryan completed the race in under 12 hours, with a big grin as we cheered him through the finishing chute.

Next up on the agenda: relaxation! Well, relaxation of the Buck variety-- meaning long bike rides and daily runs on the nearby trail, and plenty of water fights, swimming and paddling in the lake. It was a good thing we were so active, since each day was capped by another Buck tradition: Amy's gourmet meals.

The lake was ideal for spotting wildlife including blue herons and even a moose right outside our door. The Fourth of July brought a charming lake tradition, the annual boat parade, by our dock.

It was a wonderful week and we are grateful to Ryan for the impetus of this trip. So: who is doing the next big event so we can plan Buck Vacation 2016?

A Gr-8 Day for Lucy Ladybug

Our little Lucy ladybug celebrated her 8th birthday with a cake (decorated largely by her big sister) and a gaggle of friends who came to eat, drink, and be merry.

Best of all, our animal-loving girl asked for donations to the Humane Society in lieu of gifts and was able to make a wonderful donation to a cause close to her heart. Which, as her mom, melts my heart.

First Communion

There are those rare days when a mama simply gets to bask in the goodness of her children. Yesterday was one of those days. Lucy's First Communion was celebrated with our dear cousins, grandparents, and our amazing circle of St. Agatha friends. By all measures, it was a day overflowing with love and joy for our Lu.

Double digits

Mary's entrance into the double-digits was marked by two huge milestones: her first published piece of writing and her first public reading.

She submitted a poem to a statewide anthology project, Honoring Our Rivers. Lo and behold, her piece was selected to be part of the publication. On the heels of that news, she was invited to read her poem at Powell's bookstore, along with other student contributors.

And so on her birthday, we joined the large audience at Powell's to hear her poem. Though the room was packed to the gills, Mary did not show any signs of trepidation. Her voice was clear and bright as she read her poem to the crowd.

This girl, with those twinkling blues and creativity in spades, is already blazing quite the trail. I can't wait to see what she accomplishes in her next ten years.

Talk about a bear hug!

Over the Hill(s)

This milestone birthday has not just taken me over the proverbial hill, but over actual ones, also.

The celebrating began a week early with a relaxing, cherished day of pampering, terrarium-creating, and fine dining with my amazing sis Amy. With half a dozen(!!) kids between us, the chance to spend a day focused on the needs of only ourselves was remarkable-- and to spend that time together was icing on the cake. The following morning, my parents hosted a birthday brunch complete with Grandma Thoma rolls and a delicious fruit tart. I was able to wish upon my candles surrounded by five grinning children (my sweet boy was napping upstairs).

While we were cleaning up from brunch, who should appear at my parents' front door but my dear pal Robyn. She announced that she was taking me away for a surprise adventure. After one of the most gorgeous drives through the Columbia River Gorge, we crossed over the Bridge of the Gods to Washington and entered the grounds of Skamania Lodge. Inside the stunning lodge were four more dear friends, waiting with a suite of beautiful rooms, wine and treats. Save for a short walk around dusk, we spent the night gabbing and enjoying time without the usual interruption from our gaggle of wonderful but often distracting children. And as I told all of them, at a stage in our full lives when it can be difficult to steal away for a glass of wine down the street, it meant the world that they all took an entire 24 hours to celebrate with me.

On my actual birthday, my friend Sarah offered to buy me a coffee, and when I arrived at the shop, she surprised me with not only a latte, but Judy! And who is Judy, you may ask? Judy was my mentor mom in a local mom & preschooler group. Her own children are my age, and she offers her time to help lead the mothers' group. She is wise, generous and supportive, and near and dear to my heart. Having a morning to visit with her was one of the best presents imaginable.

 Later in the day, my own amazing and very brave parents arrived at our house and asked me if my bags were packed. Moments later, Curtis came home from work early, sans the beard he had been sporting that morning. Apparently, when you turn 40, your husband feels so sorry for you, he even shaves the beard he knows you don't prefer.

After hugs and kisses to the kids and good luck wishes to my parents (who were tasked with two different basketball games on opposite sides of town the following day), Curtis and I were off to a fabulous dinner, and then a drive over the coastal mountain range to my magic beach. We arrived after dark to a balmy coastline where every star in the heavens seemed to be a miniature flashlight for our stroll along the sand. I've never seen so many stars at the beach. While we walked, I craned my neck to the sky and was rewarded with not one, or even two, but three shooting stars. The next morning, we woke to the sight of ocean waves and Haystack Rock in the shining sun.

We jogged down the beach for a leisurely coffee and pastry in town, amazed at the unseasonably warm weather that graced the trip.

After the fuel, we decided to embark on a hike along the coastal hills. We were rewarded with incredible vantage points. 

Each view seemed more spectacular than the last. After several hours of ascending and descending, we came to an overlook where other hikers claimed to hear rumors of whale sightings. Curtis opened his pack to reveal a lunch of wine, baguette, and cheese. And then, as we sipped our wine and peered out at the lighthouse a mile offshore, Curtis spied whales spouting below us. At first, we saw just one, and then another, and another. It was my first time seeing whales on the Oregon coastline, despite so many visits in my 40 years. What good fortune.

We hiked back to the cabin just in time to toast the sunset with a glass of wine, before heading out for clam chowder and more star gazing.

Returning home on Sunday, we found that the kids seemed a bit disappointed that we had come home so swiftly. They loved the special time with their grandparents. What a fabulous getaway!

And if two adventures weren't enough, our annual trek across the biggest hills (aka the Cascades) to central Oregon was the following weekend. We enjoyed the company of dear friends, delicious food, soaks in the hot tub (especially Ryan, the youngest fan!) and endless hours of play together.

Trekking over the proverbial hill of life forces one to be a bit more reflective than usual: to be grateful for the gift of health (wasn't Great Aunt Rose so very right!), to soak up the smiles of those you love (especially those whose smiles are better revealed once the beard comes off), and to measure success in adventures instead of belongings. How lucky I am to be given so many opportunities to relish in these truths.